ethigirl's tips for a kinder holiday season

Happy Holidays, everyone! And to all my friends writing finals right now (including myself RIP) - keep working, you are almost there! 

I wanted to take this post as an opportunity to provide a few tips and tricks for making the holidays as fun as possible, but also as kind to the earth and its people as possible. I think this season is so amazing. Personally, I look forward to going home for Christmas every year and getting to relax and see my family. However, there have definitely been times in the past that I've been trying to fully enjoy the season but have simultaneously been noticing things about it that are wasteful or harmful. 

Therefore, I thought I'd write this post to show you all some of the simple ways that you can go about reducing your waste and your impact on the planet and its people without drastically changing the way you celebrate the holidays. There are so many things that you can do! Hopefully some of them are helpful to you!

tip #1: buy/ask for secondhand gifts

Christmas and consumerism?! Together?! Imagine that! No, but seriously. Think of all the freaking stuff you buy and get around this season. And let's be honest, a lot of it is out of obligation - only a portion of it you're actually going to use. And while this is a beautiful tradition filled with love, it can certainly be done in a more environmental and ethical manner. 

One of these ways - and without breaking the bank at that! - is to shop secondhand, or to ask others to shop secondhand for you. This is especially awesome for all those Secret Santa/Yankee Swaps you're inevitably going to be invited to, as you never know what you might stumble upon in a Value Village when you're least expecting it. 

tip #2: package your gifts in recyclable/reusable wrap

So after you've picked up all your secondhand/thrifted gifts, what better thing to do next than to wrap them sustainably, too? This is where we reuse and recycle! The way I see it, you've got two options here:

1. Get Krafty: basically every store sells that nice brown wrapping paper that looks like butcher paper. Well, pick yourself up a roll (or two) of that and wrap up all your gifts in it! Feel free to get a little more decorative with some reusable fabric ribbons, twine, or cute gift tags. Either way, though, be proud of how minimalist-ly beautiful these wrapping jobs are.

2. Just Wrap It: got some extra scarves or bandanas? Trust your recipient to return them, or don't care if they do? Then have I got a beautiful and zero waste idea for you! Lush has a fantastic, easy-to-follow video tutorial about how to do fabric-wrapped presents that look so elegant. They also sell the wraps on their website if you are looking to invest!

tip #3: cook a vegetarian or vegan dish for dinner/brunch

One of my absolute FAVOURITE parts of the holiday season is my family's tradition of having a delicious Christmas morning brunch. My extended family all comes over for an amazing spread of bagels, apple turnovers, mimosas, and more. I seriously love it and I already can't wait for this year. I've also recently gone vegetarian, and I've realized that my options honestly don't have to be that limited! My veg friends have opened my eyes to a world of beautiful recipes, particularly BAKED GOODS, that taste just as good vegan. 

It's super easy to whip up a batch of brownies or cookies and replace the milk, butter, and eggs with vegan substitutes, and just as quick to Google vegetarian dishes and be met with a whole host of options. Therefore, I'd recommend exploring this avenue this year and potentially saving a ton of greenhouse gases in the process!

tip #4: decorate with handmade or locally-purchased items

Holiday decor is so lovely! There are so many ways to make your home cozier than ever, and let's not forget that it's an excuse to literally bring a giant tree into your home and cover it in things? While we're trying not to overthink that too much, let's talk about ways to decorate that aren't super harmful for the earth. 

1. Buy locally-made soy or beeswax candles: I absolutely adore a nicely-scented candle for winding down at night and often light one as I'm having some tea. It just makes me feel so cozy! However, many of these candles are made from paraffin wax, which actually comes from oil - grr. Therefore, try finding a bit more environmentally-friendly option, such as soy or beeswax candles! These are often sold at farmers’ markets or by other local vendors. If that fails, they're also available in many places online.

2. Use picture frames you already have and add holiday art: there are so many beautiful, free holiday art pieces available online that aren't tacky! Take a look on Pinterest, like at this option, to see what I mean.

3. Do some light foraging: chances are if you live in the country and it's snowing there, you're surrounded by beautiful OUTDOOR decor already. Why not head outside and trim some sprigs of pine or gather some pinecones to place around your home? Not only is this completely zero waste, but the pine will also smell fantastic.

tip #5: receive a gift you won't use? donate it responsibly! 

Let's face it. For better or for worse, there will inevitably be a gift you received that was given out of complete love, and you were of course thankful for, but that doesn't fit, or you know it might not get used. When this happens, most of us usually donate this kind of stuff, but I'm here to tell you that your donations don't always go where you're hoping for them to. 

Donation stores simply receive too many items. If you've ever stepped inside a secondhand store, you know what I mean. Clothes rack after clothes rack, filled with items that won't get purchased. So what happens to them? They either get sent to a landfill, or sent to a community in the Global South to be sold by vendors, which actually floods the market in which artisans and other vendors are trying to sell their handcrafted goods. For many individuals in these communities, entrepreneurship is a way out of poverty - and throwing donated clothes into the mix can often collapse their customer base. This is not okay, and I will you to not contribute to it. 

What can you do instead? You should either sell your items or donate them directly to a person or cause that you know will use your donations wisely. You could do this in a buy and sell group on Facebook, by creating a Depop account, or by ordering a thredUP consignment bag. This is really important. 

Hopefully these tips and tricks will come in handy in the next couple of weeks! I wish you all a wonderful, cozy, and fun holiday season.

With love and sustainability,

Ethigirl

how to go "slow fashion" on a budget

Yes, it’s difficult to argue that shopping sustainably and ethically isn’t better than doing otherwise. You would be hard-pressed to find a lot of people who think that (aside from maybe some economists who write on Forbes, and people who work for fast fashion corporations…). The problem, however, is that slow fashion is not that cheap. We have to pay a lot more than we’re used to paying. And for those of us on a budget, that can seem just about impossible.  

But it doesn’t have to be! Even on a budget, in my opinion, you can make responsible choices that won’t break the bank. I recognize that I am speaking about this from a place of privilege because, although I’m a university student on a tight budget, I don’t struggle severely or have a lack of resources to obtain clothing, food, or shelter if in need. Therefore, I write this post as someone in that position and want to be clear that I realize not everyone is in it.

Everyone's story is different. In high school I worked a relatively well-paying part-time job, and I used large portions of my paychecks (looking back, much more than I should have…) to buy ethical clothes and products. Once I started university, however, that changed - and at first, my consumer habits didn’t change with it! I was spending far too much money. It was then that I realized I needed to be saving a lot more - which I did start doing! But I never stopped buying ethical clothing, and I never went back on my promise to not support the fast fashion industry even though I had less to spend on clothes. To do that, I’ve learned a few tricks to be able to do a bit of both: live comfortably on a budget but still make a difference.

Tip #1: Literally Buy Less Stuff.

Something I can’t state enough is that starting a slow fashion lifestyle does NOT mean getting rid of all your other clothes and buying all ethical, sustainable ones. Not only is that really expensive, in all honesty, it’s the opposite of what I think being an ethical consumer embodies! When I started switching to slow fashion I took my time, and now, about two years into the journey, I still have a great number of pre-slow fashion pieces that I love.

I think it’s really important to squeeze every last bit of life out of those pieces. We have to start appreciating the things we wear and thinking about where they may have been made. Understanding that they came from unethical conditions shouldn’t cause us to just throw them out, but instead to hold onto them and use them for all they are worth. Otherwise, not only are we not appreciating what the maker of that item went through to create it for us, but we are also encouraging the pollution of the earth, which the fashion industry is so very much to blame for.

Something that saves you even more money is just to stop buying clothing in general, like Project 333 suggests. My minimalist best friend, Daniela, told me about it, and added this:

“I’m realizing that consuming responsibly is just about consuming less in general! It’s about using what you have and making it last - getting it repaired and all! I’m still in the process [of “ethicalizing” my wardrobe] but I’ve realized it’s possible to live with 30 pieces of clothing and shoes and some people can even do it with less! I’m hoping to fit all of my belongings in a suitcase before the end of the summer.”

Therefore, starting a slow fashion lifestyle isn’t an enormous change that you prepare to create overnight. Instead, it’s a slow, lifelong journey. I promise you that it is less scary and expensive than you think!

Tip #2: Shop Secondhand

I LOVE secondhand and vintage shopping! They are two of my biggest hobbies, and two of my biggest money-savers. There are so many things I love about it, and so many ways to do it.

(Something I want to note about secondhand shopping is that it’s one of the best ways to reduce fashion’s impact on the environment. As much as I love supporting and promoting my favourite fair trade companies, making something new always will affect the environment, no matter how much we try to limit our footprint. We’ll still be using fossil fuels and a lot of water. Therefore, I think it’s important to try and limit this as much as possible. I’ll be exploring this concept in a later blog post, too!)

Depending on where I am living at a given time (the joys of university - moving around lots!), there are different ways I shop secondhand. When I’m at university in the big city, I have a few favourite vintage stores I love to visit! It’s such a unique way to find new items of clothing for fair prices. When I’m in a more rural area, like back at home, I shop from two online platforms: Depop and thredUP. I love them both! The only thing I’ll note is the shipping, which does have a carbon impact on the environment. Therefore, I try to buy bulk orders online if I need something.

Me wearing a fave pair of thrifted pants.

Depop is a global fashion marketplace run by its users. Anyone can create their own “shop” wherein they post photos of the item they want to sell, with a price, size, and description. I have found SO many amazing deals on Depop and the other sellers are so incredibly friendly. I love the community aspect. As well, many of the sellers are students or younger people who are simply selling their old clothing to make a bit of money. I love helping them avoid having those clothes go to the landfill or to a donation store where they likely won’t be sold.

thredUP is the self-proclaimed world’s largest consignment store. It’s based in the United States but does offer international shipping. There are literally hundreds of thousands of items available on the site, so it requires a lot of filtering, and even then you might catch yourself hunting for hours to find a gem! For the fashion-lover, however, this can actually be pretty fun. Again, the deals on here are pretty fantastic! I’m so happy with everything I’ve bought from them.

Tip #3: Sell on Depop/Consign to thredUP and Save the Money

Speaking of Depop, why not sell your clothes there?! It requires pretty minimal work: simply list a couple of items, follow some other people to build a network, and just make sure you get yourself to the post office to send them. This can give you some pocket cash to get out there and buy a new ethical item or two! Also, thredUP will send you a free donation bag, return shipping label included, to fill with your gently-used items to send back to them. In return, they’ll credit your account with a cut of the profits when they sell. Although I have heard it’s not the fastest way to make money, it’s certainly something to consider.

I also love these alternatives to donating your clothes because it’s a far more surefire way to ensure the lifespan of your clothes is extended. Donating clothes more often than not means they’ll end up in the landfill, impacting the environment, or being sold in a developing nation, stealing work from artisans trying to sell their own items.

Tip #4: Buy Investment Pieces, and Don’t Impulse Buy

When you do buy ethical clothing, however, the way to save money is to invest in staple pieces that you absolutely adore and know you’ll wear all the time. One item that for me comes to mind is this locally-made, delicately floral-printed tee shirt shift dress that I own. I just love that thing, and wear it probably more than anything else in my wardrobe! It’s versatile, it’s flattering, and it just speaks to my personality and what I want my style to portray about myself to others. FIND THAT ‘DRESS’, WHATEVER IT IS FOR YOU. And BUY IT!

This is the dress, folks!

Think hard about that piece of clothing before you buy it. Will you actually wear it? My rule of thumb is that it has to be wearable in at least two seasons and with more than one outfit for me to buy it. And you have to feel confident about it. I recently bought a pretty expensive bikini that I thought about for at least six months before I made the decision to hit “purchase”. I’m not saying do that every time, but I’m just saying I’m so glad I did, because I love it and have no regrets about spending my hard-earned money on it! These harder decisions have, I really think, caused me to spend less money in the long run.

These four tips have definitely helped me out lots in my pursuit to not spend all my money but to also still make ethical choices. I hope they can help you on yours. Please feel free to send me any questions you have about your own experiences and I guarantee I’ll do my very best to help out!

With love and sustainability,

Ethigirl